Stadium Says:
December 28th, 2011 at 7:14 am
Hi I was reading and there are some pointers but I was in a relationship for like 2 years we loved and cared for her thru thick and thin but…..she was married and they were on the merge of divorcing and we were trying to make a good life we had a baby on the way and with jealosly problems and my anger issues it was on and off.we have a son together try to spend time witj him but in may we broke up because she was still married so no later than a month in a half later shes already with someone…ever since she was.with the new guy she changed I’ll try to contact her on the holidays and no contact,text her and she doesnt text back onl
August 10th, 2011 at 12:39 pm
Progress? Well, we know each other five years now. 3.5 we dated. 1.5 apart. After we broke up… I had her move out… I did not contact her for a long time. Then did. She had moved away for a career. A bit later She started dating someone. (We had slept together after She met him… She had been out meeting others.). He moved away for Grad School. I had been in varying states of limited and no contact. That escalated at various times. Early on, I flew out to see her… She kissed me constantly. She flew home last month, we had a great time, physical things happened. After it escalated she wanted to not talk because she hadn’t broken up with the other guy. I said… I don’t want to talk until she breaks up. Then, I had a family trip to her area… Contacted her… She had been feeling fear of losing me… Guilt for what she was putting me through. We talked a bit… Then agreed to see each other for the few days we would be in CA at the same time. (interviews elsewhere for her.) We had sex first day… It was incredible. We spent time each day having a lot of fun out. And we had sex several other times. She loaned me her car as She left for her interview. I had told her that the reason I gave a limited window before was because people I was interested and now knew for a while were ready. She said she was making up her mind on who to marry and it was not a minor decision and she was not asking me to stay while she made it. So either I gave her her time, or moved on. I go back home. She has a job offer in Minessotta where the other guy is… But, just had a great interview in Northern Ca for a better job where she would rather be. No offer yet, but they did fly her up there. I feel like job offers and proximity effect the decisions because a top concern in her life is to get a job ASAP. After this intense period with sex… Sleeping over… Etc. And us going opposite directions… No decision yet. And after an intense night of discussion… And parting ways… She had me over the last night she was in town… And we had sex again. I do not know what to do from here. We had agreed to meet up to write a truce… I was wanting to move on… To just get out of the cycle… So wanted to agree certain things would be true… We would honor them… And move forwards into the unknown. We never did the truce. In a heated moment… She said maybe we should do the truce… But, moments later it had turned entirely. And after a night home alone… I was there for her last night in town. So… No truce… No closure… But, sex. Repeatedly… And the phone rang several times… I learned from her later she felt horrible because she had lied and told him she was out with friends… Etc. This is messy as heck. I’m trying to figure out my next move. My attitudes and confidence have been calibrated right. Not sure where to go from here. I feel I need to tell her I need a little emotional space to sort out what I want. But, not sure it is time for that again as the longer NC plan.

anonymous Says:
February 17th, 2012 at 6:08 pm
I was with my girlfriend for almost 3 years. She broke up with me for a few different reasons but told me that she still loves and will always love me. Its been 4 gut wrenching months since the break. I should be moving on, but havn’t because of the mixed signals she has given me. When she left me I didnt beg her back. I told her that I didnt want it, but that I understood. Within the first week I never contacted her, but she text me alot, about how hard it is, how she misses me, etc. I would respond that i missed her also, but still never begged her back. A girl i know posted something on facebook that was very flirtatious and my ex saw it, and was so upset she deleted her facebook account. She still didnt want me back but we still text back and forth. I decided to ignore her texts because being texting friends was to hard if she didnt want to get back with me. She started blowing up my phone two days later upset that i was ignoring her so i finally responded and asked her if she wanted to meet up. We met up and talked and i gave her a letter saying that I wanted her back, but respected whatever decision she gave me, but if it was to not get back, i didnt want to be friends because it was preventing me from moving on. We had no contact for a week, but then we both started texting back and forth for the next month or so. Her texts had been more frequent during the last three weeks. I decided to finally ask her out because of all the texts recently, and because i know for a fact that she still loves and misses me. She told me that it probably not be a good idea to meet up because shes kind of talking to another guy and out of respect she shouldnt. I told her i respect that and that i wish her well. She text back that what i said meant alot and that she would always love and care about me. I love this girl so much and would marry her if i could get her back. She obviously doesnt want me right now, but obviously cant let go. What would be the best thing for me to do? I know i cant sit around and wait for her and i am going to move on but i would love to get her back.

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